Bueno, al menos, si no ecología, hemos aprendido algo sobre la relatividad. ¿no?
"Life is a question of nerves, and fibres, and slowly built-up cells in wich thought hides itself and passion has it dreams".
What is the actual lapse of time got to do with it? It is only shallow people who requiere years to get rid of an emotion. A man who is master on himself can end a sorrow as easily as he can invent a pleasure.
If one doesn't talk about a thing, it has never happened. It is simply expression, as Harry says, that gives reality to things.